"Four Weddings and a Funeral" A film review by Linda Lopez McAlister on "The Women's Show" WMNF-FM (88.5), Tampa, FL April 16, 1994 Last night I was tired, headachy, angry, and generally in a funk. I had to go see a movie to review for today, and I really wanted one that would buoy my spirits as well as entertain me. That ruled out "Serial Mom" and "Mother's Boys" I suspected and the spate of new art films around town. I wasn't too sure about "Four Weddings and a Funeral" either -- sounded a little too reactionarily heterosexist and gloomy for my taste, but, I decided to give it a whirl. Am I glad I did. It is neither heterosexist nor gloomy. In fact, it was an intelligent, witty, good-natured, sometimes quite serious look at modern day love and commitment (with or without a marriage ceremony) and friendship. And it really does take place almost entirely within the confines of four weddings and one funeral. We see the characters only on those occasions, over a period of about two years. The characters we see are a rather large group of middle to upper class British people of varying ages and varying degrees of friendship, centering around a group of five close friends Charles (Hugh Grant), Scarlett, Gareth, Tom, Matthew and Fiona who either live or hang out a lot together and who certainly attend weddings together. Given their class status, these weddings are big affairs that almost always include a big sit- down dinner in a large manor house and a big party afterwards. Charles, who seems to have dated every woman in his large circles of friends, may get to the altar as a best man quite frequently, but he cannot imagine himself making the commitment that marriage implies. Enter Carrie (Andie MacDowell), an American woman who works for Vogue and who travels in a more glamorous set than Charles. Nevertheless they are attracted to one another and Charles, at least, begins to fall in love. Whether he'll ever be able to acknowledge that fact and express it is a major question throughout the film. The plot is too delicious to give away and the film itself leaves any possible resolution hanging until the very last minutes so you don't have the feeling ever that you know how it's going to work out. How, you ask, can all this heterosexual coupling not at least tinge on heterosexist. Well, it turns out that two members of the "gang" Gareth (Simon Callow) and Matthew (John Hannah) are gay and lovers and are, in many ways, the most together of the bunch. Matthew's long speech about his lover is surely the most memorable and touching scene in the film. No, the film is not heterosexist--though it is very much in favor of coupling with the person of your choice, with or without benefit of clergy. And it is about how difficult that sometimes is, even when the people in question are in love. Sometimes bad timing gets in the way, colossal bad timing in this film. The people here are what's interesting, not only the central gang but their more distant friends who attend the same weddings and funerals. Writer/director Mike Newell (whose 1991 film "Enchanted April" you may remember) does a wonderful job of individuating a huge number of characters and by the end of the film you almost do feel as though you've seen them at some wedding or other you've been to. One of the more interesting characters is Charles's deaf brother. The fact that he converses in sign makes for some of the most amusing moments in the film (a young woman who fancies him is learning it so as to speak with him and the subtitles reflect exactly what she says--mistakes and all) and in the end is pivotal to the final convolution of the plot. The cast here is largely fine. Hugh Grant is surely one of the most appealing young actors to his the screen since, maybe, Jimmy Stewart showed up in the 1930s. Andie MacDowell really doesn't act very well, but she has that terrific smile, and that suffices here. The supporting cast couldn't be better. So, if you just want to see a good, entertaining, uplifting a dult film (with adult language and situations) that will dispel headaches and raise spirits, go see "Four Weddings and a Funeral." For the WMNF Women's Show this has been Linda Lopez McAlister on Women and Film. Copyright 1994 by Linda Lopez McAlister. All rights reserved. Please do not reprint this review without the permission of the author.