"The Sum of Us" A film review by Linda Lopez McAlister on "The Women's Show" WMNF-FM (88.5), Tampa, FL June 3, 1995 The Tampa Bay Gay and Lesbian Pride Film Festival used to happen at the Tampa Theater in June, but for the last couple of years we've had to wait until October to see the Festival's many gay-themed films.But this week, even without the Festival, the Tampa Theater is playing a really terrifically enjoyable, up- beat, gay-themed film, Australian import "The Sum of Us." This is a film version of David Stevens's award-winning play of the same name, and the screenplay, also written by Stevens, has itself now won best screenplay awards from the 1994 Montreal Film Festival and the Australian Film Institute. This is a film about family values! Real family values: loving and caring, being loyal to your relatives. It's the realization that, in perhaps a partial but important sense, what we are is the sum of who our parents and grandparents and great- grandparents are. Jeff Mitchell (Russell Crowe) is a young plumber and rugby football player who lives with his ferryboat pilot Dad, Harry (Jack Thompson), in a working-class neighborhood in Sydney. The film opens with home-movie-like footage of Jeff as a kid playing football with his cousins and his grandmother (the kids on one team, Gran on the other) under the watchful if somewhat disapproving eye of "Aunt" Mary, his grandmother's "longtime companion." In a later flash back to that time Jeff confides in the audience that he first learned about love between people of the same sex and how natural it seemed when he saw Gran and Mary sleeping sweetly in one another's arms on one of his childhood visits to their house. Jeff and his widowed father, Harry, share the homemaking and cooking and carry on and bicker with one another and drive one another up the wall, but are still great friends and clearly devoted to one another. But both are lonesome. A lot of these things we learn because screenwriter Stevens has retained in the film the theatrical asides that he used in the play, so from time to time Jeff or Harry will interrupt the narrative flow of the film to talk directly to us, the audience, and explain things or give background information. This device become essential in the later portions of the film. Harry tries his luck at finding a new wife through a computer dating service and meets someone he likes a lot, Joyce (Deborah Kennedy). Jeff, who is gay. has been a bit wary of romantic entanglements since his heart was broken a few years back, and this worries his Dad who wants very much for Jeff to be happy. When Jeff announces that he is going down to the local pub to meet a guy and he's especially nervous and concerned about how he looks, Harry is thrilled. Ever since he learned when Jeff was about fourteen that he is gay, Harry has done everything he can to be supportive of his son, even to going with him to check out the gay bars when Jeff was old enough. When Jeff brings Greg (John Poulson) home that night, Harry's hospitality and attentiveness overwhelm the young man, whose own family is so uptight and bigoted he can't be honest with them about his sexuality. The events that propel this situation into action are best left for you to discover. I suppose if you belong to the American Family Association or some other homophobic group you won't like this picture, you'll find it immoral and disgusting. But anybody else would find it hard to resist these down-to- earth, real, caring, people and the warmth and good feelings this lovely picture radiates. In sum, "The Sum of Us" adds up to a wonderful film-going experience. It's only at the Tampa Theater until Thursday night. Don't miss it. For the WMNF Women's Show this has been Linda Lopez McAlister on Women and Film.