"The Summer House" A film review by Linda Lopez McAlister on "The Women's Show" WMNF-FM (88.5), Tampa, FL February 6, 1994 I don't think it's a coincidence that some of our local male film critics who are positively orgasmic over this week's Chinsegut Film Festival featuring "Films of the New Violence" have been utterly contemptuous and dismissive of "The Summer House," a British import now playing at the Tampa Theater and the Movies at Pinellas Park. There are some films that feature older women characters--especially those that address the subject of male/ female relations--that some of my male colleagues seem consistently to undervalue while mature female audiences thoroughly enjoy them: "Shirley Valentine," "She-devil," and now "The Summer House." (It was the discrepancy between what I saw and what I read about "Shirley Valentine" that made me so mad I started writing my own movie reviews a few years back.) "The Summer House" was directed by Waris Hussein, produced by Norma Heyman and is from the 1987 book "The Clothes in the Wardrobe" by British novelist Alice Thomas Ellis. It is about a young woman, Margaret (Lena Headley), who has returned to her mother's staid suburban London home from an obviously traumatic visit with family friends in Egypt (though the source of the trauma is revealed only gradually in flashbacks). Depressed and confused, she has allowed herself to become engaged to the man next door whom she really can't stand, a silly jerk in his '40s who lives with his widowed mother (Joan Plowright). Margaret's mother Monica (Julie Walters) is an utterly conventional middle- class English woman, for whom marriage was less than wonderful and who is long divorced, but who pushes her daughter, nonetheless, (and without very much success) to act and feel the way patriarchal society decrees brides-to-be are supposed to. As the wedding day approaches, Monica's best friend, Lily (Jeanne Moreau) whom she has known since they were schoolgirls together in colonial Egypt, arrives. Lily is the antithesis of Monica's conventionality. She is a totally free spirit and her own person. She was a ballerina in her youth. Now she's in a very free and unpossessive marriage to Robert, an artist, and she loves and lives as she pleases. She and the groom's mother Mrs. Monro are wary of one another for they both know that years ago Lily had had a romantic fling with Mr. Monro. But Lily goes to visit Mrs. Monro one day with a bottle of Scotch and they clear the air. For the main thing about Mrs. Monro's otherwise enjoyable widowhood is that besides her pug she has no one to talk to, at least no one who understands what she's saying. Lily understands--specifically she understands that Margaret must not throw her life away marrying a twit she doesn't love just because people expect it of her. Even though the twit in question is her son, Mrs. Monro agrees. How everything gets worked out is one of those movie secrets about which people who have seen it are sworn to secrecy. But it's a great surprise. The thing that makes this film so wonderful for women (and so off-putting to some men) is that it is filled from beginning to end with women's discourse, by which I don't just mean that women are doing the talking, but that they are articulating a female world view, in particular the world view of crones like Lily and Mrs. Monro who have lived long and learned a lot about life and who no longer bother to play by patriarchy's rules--they have earned the right to say and do what they really think--about life, men, and marriage. And they do so with such warmth, charm, and wit, it's delightful--and very funny. I was laughing out loud a lot. So this weekend while some of the boys are out playing pirate at Tampa's annual Gasparilla pirate invasion, and others are getting off on hyperviolence in the movies, the women of Tampa may want to get themselves to the "The Summer House" and take a young woman with you. It's our best revenge. For the WMNF Women's Show this has been Linda Lopez McAlister on Women and Film. Copyright 1994 by Linda Lopez McAlister. All rights reserved. Please do not reprint this review without the permission of the author.